Let’s get straight to it—decluttering sentimental items can be HARD. There, we said it.
These items often represent memories, loved ones, or significant moments in our lives, making it difficult to let them go. However, when they start taking over your space and impacting your home, it’s time to take action. It's possible to manage these items in a way that honours their meaning while creating a more organised home.
Before we dive into some practical tips, one common thing we've noticed with clients (and, we admit, we've been guilty of too!) is keeping things because we think they should be sentimental, or because someone else said so.
Whether you're holding onto old letters, keepsakes from your children, or a wardrobe full of clothes that no longer fit but hold memories, here are some tips to help you navigate this emotional task:
1. Understand Why You’re Keeping the Item
Before deciding what to keep, it’s important to understand the "why" behind the item. Is it the physical object itself, or is it the memory attached to it? Often, it's the memory that holds the real value, not the thing. Taking a moment to reflect on why you're holding onto something can make it easier to decide if you really need to keep it.
For example, those old birthday cards from years ago might remind you of a special friendship. But ask yourself: is it the card, or the thought behind it, that matters? Do you really need every Christmas card your grandparents ever sent, or could one or two special ones suffice?
2. Start Small and Take Your Time
Decluttering sentimental items is not something you should rush. Start with a small category—perhaps a single box or drawer. This helps prevent overwhelm and gives you the emotional space to process your feelings.
Choose an area that feels less emotionally charged first, such as old holiday souvenirs or gifts you no longer use. Once you gain confidence, you can move on to more personal items like letters or photographs.
3. Keep the Best, Let Go of the Rest
It’s important to be selective when deciding what to keep. Instead of holding onto every single item attached to a memory, try keeping only the most meaningful ones. This way, you can treasure the most important items without being overwhelmed by excess clutter.
For example, if you've saved every drawing your child ever made, consider keeping just a few favourites, or digitise them to preserve the memory while saving space.
4. Create a Memory Box
If you find it hard to part with certain sentimental items, consider creating a memory box. This allows you to limit how many items you keep while ensuring they are stored safely and neatly. The box can hold mementos like letters, photos, or small keepsakes, giving you a dedicated place to revisit these memories without cluttering your home. We both have one for each family member, so everyone can decide what’s most important to them.
5. Repurpose or Display Sentimental Items
If something is truly special, why not give it new life by repurposing or displaying it? For example, old clothes with sentimental value can be turned into a quilt, or—like Ellie—you can turn something like your wedding champagne bottle into a pen pot. This way, you’re honouring the memory without letting it gather dust in storage.
6. Take Photos to Preserve the Memory
Sometimes, the best way to preserve a memory is by taking a photo. If you’re finding it hard to let go of large items, take a picture before saying goodbye. This way, you’ll still have a record of the item and the memory attached, without the physical clutter.
7. Get Support When You Need It
Decluttering sentimental items can be emotional and overwhelming, and that’s OK. Don’t be afraid to ask for help—whether from a trusted friend, family member, or a professional organiser. Having someone by your side can provide emotional support and help give you perspective as you make tough decisions.
Conclusion: Honouring the Past Without Being Tied to It
Decluttering sentimental items isn’t about forgetting the past or letting go of important memories. It’s about creating a home that works for your life now. By keeping what truly matters and letting go of the excess, you’ll make space for new memories while holding onto the essence of the old.
Remember, there’s no rush. Take your time, honour your emotions, and be kind to yourself as you navigate this journey.
If you need support with this or any other part of your decluttering process, don’t hesitate to reach out. We’re here to help.
Whatever your decluttering and organising challenge, just remember: we get it and we’ve got your back.
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